When you let go of the need to impress others and act with sincerity towards yourself you will gain respect from others easier than pretending to be something your not. Also stop imagining what you need because when you realize you don't need anything, then you have everything. This is a matter of accepting and appreciating all that you do have. The more you focus on the need for something you start to distance yourself from attaining it, so stop needing and start allowing and accepting abundance into your life. Its time to shine bright and welcome good fortune into your life by expressing yourself in a positive light, and being a source of inspiration in everything you do.