When things don't work out according to plan it just means that there is a better option out there somewhere, so don't get discouraged. Believe it or not when you try something and backfires, its an opportunity to turn the results around and get a different outcome. The trick to turning things around in your favor is staying positive. However, you have to do your part to find a solution and you will. Its all about maintaining your energy and vitality to cope and figure out what needs to get done. The more positive things you do, the more positive results you will have in transforming your options.